Love has no Loyalty ?
i didnt mean that in a bad way, love has no loyalty meaning that if someone finds another person/partner better in terms of personality ? looks ? caring and sensitive towards the partner or most importantly MONEY! would the loved one have a change of hearts, its not that hard actually to change what you desire in a person, if someone BETTER comes along the heart would be diverted hence the thought of having someone better comes to mind ? is this true ?
i know someone recently who is in this delima, he has a gf and his loyalty towards her was endless, i would say he was near zombified towards her every desire, friends was left in the dark with no contacts or watsoever. i would say that i think he loves her lots and would do anything (this is my view) i dont really know them that well. so in recent times this person (the girl) met someone better in a sense like maybe more caring ?? i dont know(assumtion made by me) they broke up and she ended with the other guy! SHITE, as i say love has no loyalty.. i dont know..
i was tricked by a girl before, i gave her my love and also i became the zombified version of the person that i know, same problem, i neglected my friends, and all i ever think of was her, and yet i was deceived by love and her, maybe i was the stupid one,i was naive and also dumb to think that my love would last, or maybe i was just plain ugly, well that was 8 years ago hehe, i dont really trust relationships anymore, its really hard for me to find that trust once it was broken into pieces, till today i find it hard to trust a girl, (just dont know what they want to do) i know you girls must be like thinking WTF not all girls are like that. i agree.. i truly agree, i will slowly regain composure and i know fate will bring me to that person that is going to be my future.
i really would like to take this space to thank all my friends whom supported me when i was in that black hole time, sucked by the endless sadness being mellon chollie all the time, thanks for being there, asking me to go out, trying to prive me away from all those thoughts of sadness. i will always try to help who is in that same situation. i hope you understand that i am not pushing but i am trying to help ! cause i’ve been there.. and now i want to be there for you (whoever you are)
not all girls are un-trustworthy… we all have our period of hormonal rage do we? when naivety & curiousity reside…lol… ‘black hole time’… more like a minor pothole… a slight bump on your path… get over it & off u go again
…HAPPY CHINESE LUNAR NEW YEAR To You…
25/01/2006 at 5:20 pm
Hi!Thanks for stopping by. I just came to check out your blog. Relationships are a tough lesson in life. I’ve been there too, and it took me a long time to get over some of them. You sound like you are getting over it and you are off to a good start. Take Care.
25/01/2006 at 11:03 pm
be thankful of what you have gone thru, for I have gone thru the worse of anything.the person you mentioned, is a bitch so be like me, fuck the bitch, and move on!and like u said, no matter what… true friend is there… enjoy their presents.. and cherish your life.
26/01/2006 at 3:42 am
Hi Jin, was interested to know what you blogged about love, 2nd paragraph is closely related to what I’ve experienced, but I do not leave my man for another man, he left me for good, one deep scar and a phobia towards him. All I can say, it takes two to tango. I’ve my own share of guilt and disappointments at the same time, can’t put the blame entirely on him, I’m just glad I have met this man, and he helped me grow up a lot. To continue my life with another man, is another chapter of my story, and to put a remark on your blog, I believe true love does come with loyalty. It’s okay others doubt it, after all, you are the best person to know yourself.
26/01/2006 at 4:53 am
intertwinin of lov and loyalty makes life miserable. think simple, it makes you a happier person.
26/01/2006 at 6:33 am
hi hooray-for-boobies : haha .. well at that time IT WAS a BLACK HOLE SUCKING MY LIFE .. ahah .. but today .. its what we can call a minor pothole ..not that i really care for the person anymore, jsut my thought, MC : if seem to be getting it over ? well not a good start but a happy ending ! thanks for coming by again. Fishbrain : haha .. refrain from vulgarities, i dont think that anyone is a bitch. maybe we were all young and senseless.. unsure of what is love at that time. even at this moment i am unsure what is love? hahah .. dont need to have gfs of whatsoever la.. unless we look like models la .. ahah fish’s ex: definitly true.. takes two to tango, but then again .. love knows no loyalty ! hahah .. cherly : you are so right, dont be complex.. think simple ! GOOOSSSSEEEEFRABA !! ahha .. take care .. and HAVE A GOOD CHINESE NEW YEAR !
26/01/2006 at 8:50 am
I think you are taking this the wrong way Jin…. I on the other hand see this sort of experience… although painful but is one of the best ways to wake us up from the dreamworld that was built into our tender minds as we were growing up… These complications of human behaviour towards the love ones they surround themselves with is a constant mechanism to remind us that we are forever vulnerable and if ever we want to achieve the comfort zone… we must be prepared to loose and be kicked back into square one( where we are hungry for something again)… The best Solution is to never achieve that comfort Zone in a relationship … if we are not willing to brave the vulnerability of the complicated scenarios and hurt any love ones can bring… Lets be honest… We are all very confused about our place in this world… so what makes anything certain… Love for one is the most uncertain thing… since love and infatuation is separated with only a very fine thread…
26/01/2006 at 9:09 am
well said on the waking us up on dreamworld, but might i ask you, what dreamworld are you talking about, what i am trying to imply is that love has no loyatly is not about breaks up la.. haha .. its about girl/guy will change hearts when find better. your best solution of not being in the comfort zone might worry the lady friend you are with as because you dont give them a sense of security, am i right boys and girl ? how you feel if (eg: ur gf goes out with other guys ?) would you feel like WTF ahha .. ? well i have no DOUBT about the confused about our place in this world part, i believe that is very well said also because till now i dont know what i want ? might i say just kick back and wait for the right girl to come ? or we go looking ? ahha ..
26/01/2006 at 10:05 am
hehe , thats how things are . try not to take it too seriously
heheheThats the risk to take , to be inlove, hehehehe , 
Shit do happens…
26/01/2006 at 9:47 pm